This month we're reading "You’re Not Listening: What You’re Missing and Why It Matters " by Kate Brown

This month's book club read goes hand in hand with our blog post "Are you really listening", (which by the way, if you haven't yet read it, can be accessed here!)

When was the last time you really engaged in a meaningful conversation, where both you and the other person truly connected through listening? In today's fast-paced world, filled with constant noise and digital distractions, it often feels like we've forgotten the art of listening. This book has the power to revolutionise the way you communicate.

In "You're Not Listening: What You're Missing and Why It Matters," author Kate Murphy, a contributor to The New York Times, delves into the critical importance of listening in our lives. Drawing from a wide array of conversations with individuals ranging from priests to CIA interrogators, focus group moderators to bartenders, and even her own great-great aunt to her friend's toddler, Murphy illustrates how effective listening can bridge gaps and foster true connections.

Listening is a skill that goes beyond simply hearing words—it's about curiosity, patience, and asking the right questions in the right way. Surprisingly, some of the best listeners are found in the unlikeliest of places, like improvisational comedians and con artists. Meanwhile, some of the most intelligent people can struggle with this essential skill.

However, "You're Not Listening" reminds us that listening can be cultivated and refined. It holds the potential to transform our relationships, enhance our self-awareness, boost creativity, and contribute to our overall happiness. While it may require effort, this book teaches us that the ability to listen deeply and empathetically is a skill worth mastering.

In a world where we all yearn to be understood and to understand others better, "You're Not Listening" serves as a valuable guide to unlock the power of genuine communication and connection.